Yani and Suryadi pre-wedding photos and wedding snapshots

My younger brother Suryadi has just got married. He is the third son, yet the first to get married. He married his schoolmate from junior high school Yani—they have known each other since then but only started seeing each other since school reunion three years ago. They both work in Jakarta, but both families are in Yogyakarta, our houses are not very far from each other. Our parents’ history helped bring our families together: Yani’s father and our mother were schoolmates back in Kutoarjo, C. Java.

The couple asked me to take additional casual pre-wedding photos of them last month, 26 January 2017. I also decided to take more additional casual photos when they tied the knot last weekend, 18 February 2017. Congratulations, brother! May you two live happily ever after. God bless!


Photographs by Budi N.D. Dharmawan © 2017 ∎


Hindsight: 2016 in review

Another year has almost passed. What did we gain, or lose? What have I learned? This is my year end note.

2016 has not been a very good year personally. I closed 2015 by directing Kekwa, a semi-musical children stage play, which was not bad, but sure enough could have been improved (with more time and resources). The production left a mark for me as I lost a good friend (who was the music director) in the process because of a road accident. Then I started 2016 by taking care of my father, who was hospitalised because of cardiac arrest. My father passed away in February—it breaks my heart but I’m glad to have been with him and taken care of him everyday in the last two weeks of his life. I soon returned to the same hospital to take care of my girlfriend, who got dengue fever right after my father’s burial. To be honest, even until now I haven’t really been able to fully process what I felt with all that.

In April I assisted a photojournalism workshop by French photographer Christophe Loviny. Few weeks ago Christine Mourman, the director of Institut Française Indonesie Yogyakarta which supported the workshop, told me that they are planning a follow-up workshop next year. I spent May and June going arround Yogyakarta, hopping from one gallery to other art spaces as there were almost one hundred art events and exhibitions held during Jogja Art Weeks, in conjuction with the 9th edition of the artists’ art fair ART|JOG. A photo I took at ART|JOG ended up being used in their post-event thank-you note. In July Kekwa production team continued the discussion which began in April, about the possibilities to restage the play, which took us to Jakarta to visit a possible venue in August. While in Jakarta, I visited the presidential palace art collection exhibition in Galeri Nasional.

In September I gave a talk on narrative journalism at Faculty of Economics and Business Universitas Gadjah Mada. My name has been included in the book Photography in Southeast Asia: A Survey by Zhuang Wubin, which was published in October. I gave a talk on photojournalism at Faculty of Engineering UGM. At the end of the month, with friend and colleague Boy T. Harjanto we discussed how we can enforce social change through photography. I stayed in a five-star hotel in Solo in November on an assignment for a leisure travel magazine. Just before that, I gave another talk on photojournalism at Faculty of Social and Political Sciences UGM. This December, just days ago, I was invited to be a guest photographer-blogger for Canon Asia website, but the invitation was cancelled because I told them I am not a Canon brand user, although I would love to share my knowledge and experience. Well, maybe some other time, maybe with some other brand.

A little bit out of topic. The year 2016 also marked my coffee journey. I’ve been a regular coffeeshop goer since the first café opened in Yogyakarta in early 2000s, but like I said, I am a regular guy; I kept going to a number of same coffeeshops. This year I started going to different coffeeshops around the city, many of them were actually new. Some are located within the city’s central area, some are in the suburb, while some are even further away. This year, Starbucks opened five new outlets in Yogyakarta: two inside the newly opened Hartono Mall and Jogja City Mall, one in the older Galeria Mall, one next to XXI Cinema, and another one just opened a week ago on the busy and touristy Jalan Malioboro. Some have actually closed down after only weeks since their opening.

Here is a look back through some photos.

Gondolayu bridge at sunset, 7 January 2016. Photo: Budi N.D. Dharmawan


Performance by young composer Jay Afrisando at PKKH UGM, Yogyakarta, 27 January 2016. Photo: Budi N.D. Dharmawan (+)

Children fashion commissioned by Hermina Bawanawati for her future clothing line, featuring the cute Kanya. Yogyakarta, 31 January 2016. Photo: Budi N.D. Dharmawan (+)


Mada being treated for dengue fever at the same building but different floor from where my father had been treated weeks before. Yogyakarta, 1 March 2016. Photo: Budi N.D. Dharmawan

Composer Jay Afrisando continues his project with another performance at Institut Française Indonesie Yogyakarta, 26 April 2016. Photo: Budi N.D. Dharmawan (+)

Young artist from Bandung Ruth Thiemann Beelt follows transgender artist Tamara Pertamina at Jalan Malioboro in a study for her graduation project. Yogyakarta, 22 May 2016. Photo: Budi N.D. Dharmawan (+)


Empty lot at Jalan Kaliurang, where there is now a McDonald’s outlet, opening in November. Yogyakarta, 29 July 2016. Photo: Budi N.D. Dharmawan

Lidia Pamungkas’ bridal shower, a month before her wedding with my old friend Dwiari PS. Yogyakarta, 17 August 2016. Photo: Budi N.D. Dharmawan (+)

Gondomanan intersection. Yogyakarta, 14 September 2016. Photo: Budi N.D. Dharmawan

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Studio of artist Agung Kurniawan, commissioned by architect Novi Kristinawati. Yogyakarta, 16 October 2016. Photo: Budi N.D. Dharmawan (+)

Residence of writer Kusen Alipah Hadi, commissioned by architect Novi Kristinawati. Yogyakarta, 16 October 2016. Photo: Budi N.D. Dharmawan (+)

Home-studio of artist Wedhar Riyadi, commissioned by architect Novi Kristinawati. Yogyakarta, 16 & 25 October 2016. Photo: Budi N.D. Dharmawan (+)

Residence of entrepreneur Yan Parhas, commissioned by architect Novi Kristinawati. Yogyakarta, 18 October 2016. Photo: Budi N.D. Dharmawan (+)

Madre bistro, commissioned by architect Novi Kristinawati. Yogyakarta, 18 October 2016. Photo: Budi N.D. Dharmawan (+)

Merapi volcano as seen from my hotel in Solo. Central Java, 4 November 2016. Photo: Budi N.D. Dharmawan

That empty lot at Jalan Kaliurang is now a 24-hour McDonald’s outlet where young people hang out and students sit with their computers working on assignments or graduation papers. Yogyakarta, 9 December 2016. Photo: Budi N.D. Dharmawan


I guess that would be all for now. I appreciate all the good and the not-so-good also the ordinary things. I am grateful for all the friendships I have and I am sorry for all the mistakes I have done. I hope I can still develop and progress together with all of us. Merry Christmas and happy new year. Peace on Earth, peace in our hearts as well.

Best regards,
Budi N.D. Dharmawan ∎

Yong Ennie and Toh Zeng Yan wedding, Malaysia, 25 May 2013

Yong En Nie and Toh Zeng Yan wedding. Ipoh, Perak, Malaysia, 25 May 2013. Photo: Budi N.D. Dharmawan
Yong Ennie and Toh Zeng Yan wedding. Ipoh, Perak, Malaysia, 25 May 2013. Photo: Budi N.D. Dharmawan

Happy wedding for Yong Ennie and Toh Zeng Yan! Congratulations Zeng Yan for marrying a strong woman, and Ennie for having a caring husband. I wish you two live happily, and prosperous, ever after. ■

Mira and Dito wedding snapshots

When Dito told me he already proposed Mira, it was not really a surprise as their marriage was kind of expected, but it still surprised me as I didn’t think it would be this soon. Well ‘soon’ maybe is not the right word as Mira and Dito have been seeing each other since… well… uhmmm… at least 2005. Maybe longer. But still, I didn’t think it would be this soon.

I attended their wedding not as a photographer, but as always I couldn’t hold not to take pictures. So I became their unofficial wedding photographer (and at some point I also became Mira’s unofficial bestman, unofficial fake nail guy, and unofficial videographer as well). Here are some snapshots I took from the wedding.

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Congratulations for your wedding, Mira Asriningtyas and Dito Yuwono, may you two live happily ever after.

Photographs by Budi N.D. Dharmawan ∎

Damar and Arief wedding snapshots

I attended Damar and Arief’s wedding last week in Karanganyar, Central Java. Damar was my first friend in university. As new students, we were in the same group during campus orientation. And we became good friends since then. When I went to Karanganyar to photograph the funeral of former President Suharto in 2008, I called her, asking her to guide me. I stayed at her house for a few days. After graduated from university, she went to work for a bank in Batam Island, but have recently been transfered to Surabaya.

Arief, her husband, was also from our university but from different faculty. He was a photographer for our university newspaper, as far as I remember. I had known him some years ago but don’t really remember how or when—and I don’t think Arief remembers either. Anyway, here are some snapshots I took from the wedding.

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May you two live happily ever after, Damar and Arief!

Photographs by Budi N.D. Dharmawan ∎

Ina and Fakih wedding snapshots

I attended friends’ wedding last Sunday: Ina and Fakih. Years ago, we all went to the same junior high school—my class was next to Fakih’s class and Ina was our junior. Ina and Fakih then went to the same high school, while I was accepted at a Catholic missionary high school. I met Ina again when we both studied communications at Gadjah Mada University.

These are some snapshots I took at Ina Ratriyana and Fakih Rahman’s wedding in Yogyakarta, 9 September 2012.

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I am happy for you and I hope happiness and joy fulfill your marriage, Ina and Fakih!

Photographs by Budi N.D. Dharmawan ∎